motivation story

Born congenital or can be learned?

The following questions is quite interesting and a lot of experts thought. Whether someone is born as a villain?. Surely there are people born as a leader?. If you are born shy, it means you are not to be shy forever? Questions such as these are also developing in many areas of psychology, such as for example, whether intelegent existing since birth - as the default nature of the child - or can be developed through nurture the right. Cross of this debate, known as "the default - the development of (nature - Nurture)." All the answers given have not fully answer the question is. However, in relation to be positive we summon the assumption that the four themes for discussion.

- Positive attitude is not the default of birth;
- Positive attitudes can be learned;
- Positive Attitude is a choice;
- We can practice a positive attitude, can not - is your choice.

Fourth assumption is important for our discussion, because if you do not like that positive attitude is something that can you select, the smaller the possibility for you to change.

If you are still in doubt, try the following exercise:

1.
think a number of aspects of your life. Give answers, whether the attitude you now because you are born so, or only eye
is results or lessons
2. The influence that you receive
3. Or is a mix between the default attitude of birth and life of your development?

* The way you make the decision [1] [2] [3]
* Attitude of your money [1] [2] [3]
* Your attitude towards race [1] [2] [3]
* Books you about environmental problems [1] [2] [3]
* Pain humor you [1] [2] [3]
* Your music taste [1] [2] [3]
* The spirit and your energy [1] [2] [3]
* Newspaper did you read [1] [2] [3]

Basically, the way you think, and taste your political stance is the result of the study and will continue to develop during life. While the sense of humor, spirit and your energy - which is a little mix between birth and the default option - is an exception.

Perhaps you think that all this is rather extreme. If you believe that a positive or negative attitude is carried since birth, and the accident or your own employees you have a negative attitude, it does not have anything that can be done to change it. Actually not so.
Indeed, genetic factors also play a role. Most people can sing, but very few who are able toss
caliber songs Ruth Sahanaya. Many people can be drawing, but only a few people capable of drawing as well as Basuki Abdullah. All people can run, but only very few who can become world-class runner.

Once any way, through practical exercises and we will be able to sing better, drawing a better or run faster. So be positive with, you will be able to become better in the things that you do it. As a first step, you will need to be positive on the possibility of the change.

Positive attitude in the management of a nature that can improve any or all forms of management skill. However, a positive attitude can not stand on its own. Therefore, the positive attitude regarding reciprocal back with various forms of management skill.

Let's close this session with the manager as you suppose personnel who are employees of the walkout. How do you finesse in handling the problems associated with these characteristics be positive that we had in the session 2? Give a score on each characteristic from the
negative to positive:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

1. Is not very neutral ------------ Neutral



2. Not able to take the Ability ----

3. Creative thinking is not ------- Creative Thinking

4. --------------- Optimistic pessimist

5. Does not communicate effectively-Effective Communicating

Of course we can not give an exact figure to measure the level of your positive attitude. However, in a certain extent you have to rate how positive your attitude at this time, and if there are things that must be changed so that you can increase your positive attitude. So you may think, there are indications that a discrete positive and the other took the legal-legal only. It is important here, the higher the value you provide training on the above or other characteristics that you add, the more likely you can be positive in your management.

motivation

Achieve the maximum potential life

Each person crave a better future; success in his career,
household and social relations, but we often hit by various
constraints. And thus have the biggest obstacles in our own self.
Through his work, Joel Osteen challenging us to think out of the pattern of
narrow and begin to think with the new paradigm.

There are 7 steps that we achieve the maximum potential of life:

* The first step is to expand insight. You must make this life
with eyes of faith, look to yourselves are
move a higher level.
You must have a clear mental picture of what you will achieve.your
This picture should be a part of yourself, the
marrow, in,
trickle down to the natural
aware mind you, in the doings and in every
aspects your life.

* Step two is to develop a healthy self-image. That means you must

based on image above yourself what God says about you.

successful you achieve the goal depends on how you look
yourself and what you feel about yourself. Because it will determine
level of confidence in your act. The fact that you will not be

move been higher than what you think about yourself

* Step three is to find behind the mind and the strength of your word.
Target is the main enemy attack mind you. He knew if he
successfully control and manipulate what you think, then he
will successfully control and manipulate all your life.
Thoughts determine behavior, attitudes and self-image. Mind set of the goal.
The Bible warns us to always keep one's mind.

* Step four is to release the past, let it go ...
You may have lost all that no one should experience
in this life. If you want to live
victory, you may not use
past trauma as a pretext to make choices that bad at this time.
You must not dare to make the past as a top reason your
bad attitude your
for this, or does not justify
action to forgive someone.

* Step five is to find the strength in the worst circumstances even
We have to be: "I can drop several times in this life, but
but I will not continue to live under there. "We all face
challenges in life. We all have certain things that come
attack us. We may be from the outside, but the key to life

is learning how to rise again from the inside.


* Step six is to give with joy. One of the biggest challenges
that we face is the temptation to be selfish life.
For we know that God really want the best for us,
He wants us to prosper, to enjoy
love god and more that he provided for us,
but sometimes we forget and get stuck in to the behavior itself.
Indeed, we will experience more joy than ever be
when we want to share life with other people.

* Step seven is to choose to be happy today. You do not have to wait
until all your
problems resolved. You must not delay happiness
until you reach all
aim you. God blessed you want any your
conditions
now!



17 It must be remembered that
1. If a problem has occurred, not should be avoided (confused), but MUST be faced with calm (imaginable way out) and definitely finished / no way out.

2. Facing all this, be negative thinking, such as: "I definitely incapable," "I can", and so on. But always think positive, like: "I can, surely there is way out" and others.
3. Have fun and just all depends on your mind! (The mind is a pioneer!). So we try to keep good thoughts - good. Do not think that ugly / negative. Always think positive (good).

4. Any difficulties / distress will expired. of any problem will be completed also with the time. As the proverb says: NO PARTY NOT ENDED.

5. Person is successful 85% of the attitude / behavior, 15% new skill set. So our attitude in life is important.

6. Everything changed (anicca). We need to go hard. For example:
difficult now, then certainly becomes happy. now there are people who keep us happy, at a later will well.

7. Law karma, the good will get good results and vice versa, such as planting rice, harvesting rice bound. Remember! Try it at any time is always a (plant) in order to get good (harvest) goodness. do not commit a crime.do not hope and get a reply from our good deeds!

8. Health \
despair most number one (
worth). Maintain health with our sport, rest and not enough food markets.

9. Life is full of problems / issues / illness. So we know
already MAY NOT Always Current / quietly. Prepare mentally, courageous, patient and staff for them. that is the reality of life that must be faced by every human being.

10. The future depends on a very attitude and books to read. So reading is very important and determine the future of someone.

11. Do not speak evil of others, because we will be judged ugly
people do listen.

12. Association is very important and is one of the key to success. May interact with the origin of evil and the good we MUST KNOW Arts / DO NOT Affected ENVIRONMENT. Even better if we can be evil to lead the correct way.

13. Budi parents, can not be paid any kind. as well as
budi orang2 who have helped us.

14. Every human being has the advantages and disadvantages. So do yourself a minder with us lack. and do not envy people with excess. Here respect IS! \

15. The contrast (argue) it is no small thing useful
also with anyone.

16. The key to success in this life, always vibrant, tried, discipline, patience, hard work, diligent prayer / worship, many good and not despair.

17. Do not Assessing the Wealth of the (wealth), appearance or condition
physical

motivation

reasonable your complain? But you have to get
a pair of strong arms to change the world. reasonable
you? In fact you have been awarded wiliness
that allows you everything
tidy

Do you intend dissipate all of that, then
remove the burden of responsibility from your shoulder?
Do not! Do not leave all the power in the self -
fall you just because you moan moan. come on,
rigid heart.
standing shoulder. Do not let the spirit
lost not only because of what answers to the problems of
you.

Do not let your fatigue
puncture excellence.
Take in the breath-in.
try to calm all natural highway that
you have in mind. Then find more
rays in
cloud behind the galaxy. And, start take new steps.

Indeed, there are people who complain more than entitled to
you. Unfortunately, their voice did not sound harsh, because
they no longer had time to complain. A heavy burden of life
Get more like them than
regret. If so,
if you prefer to complain rather than a challenge
life?

profile of a successful

Sudono Salim: Tips Success

Who does not know or Sudono Salim Liem Soei Liong (92 years), a world-class business success? He founded Salim Group. This group, among others, the birth Indofood, Indomobil, Indocement, Indosiar, Bogasari, Bank Central Asia, and others. Men are familiar disapa Om Liem this also was ranked first as the richest people in Indonesia and Asia. In fact, he had entered the list of "100 Richest People in the World." What's the secret, could be up to the big?

First, Om Liem have the instinct and the extraordinary business. Second, he developed a nature is: hard work, abstinence surrender, and diligent! He said, to the daily "Kompas" in Singapore: if you want success, do not just stand by. During the young, work completely. spirit and effective use of time. Do not leave after a long time, do not always walk, and do not sleep fast! Do not give up too easily on the difficulty.

What if the business fails? Do not despair. Wake up with new tricks! So on until you find the most fitting formula for success. If you are easily despair, so it is only workers, not so ... corporate!

In addition, the entrepreneurs who have good character. People who succeed with the foul, will soon roll mats because persons. Therefore, it is better to hit a little more, but arranged in sincere and honest. We can sleep more soundly and not have the burden.

"It is true, a businessman must be resourceful," said Om Liem. "But, do not foul. Do not take the property of others."

Finally, remind Om Liem: rajinlah help poor. The goal, so that our soul

skilled

to share.

Now, he is already in the twilight, Om Liem lived in Bukit Timah, Singapore. Occasionally, he went to the office a simple, to socialize. Many friends who act came on, to become a major.
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Achieve Success Without Limits

Man is God's creation the most groove by him, because it is equipped with super powerful features, that is preposterous thought. This is the gift that each individual is born with unlimited potential. Anyone will surprised if aware that it has potential. Even those who already had a "feel" the peak of success even sure amazed at the fact that there are many other success that they can achieve.
Success is NOT the only tangible material. The amount was quite large number of uncounted because each is a reflection of the success of nature-perfect nature of God. Therefore, if we are always consistent in the creation of human blue print, that is as ambassador-minister, he in the world, each work is always we are the best results, a perfection. For the purpose of this is provided with the human "capital base" form of thinking rationally. So, if the "basic capital" is already there, the next question is, "Are there enough opportunities in the world for give shape to,create?" Did we already at doctrine with the expression-expression such as:

1 .When all the leaders so, then who will be the children?
2.where the winner is the only one
3.Not everyone is born with a talent like that

We like collide in a paradox. On the one hand we have an unlimited potential, but on the other hand, the real environment seems less supportive.

To answer it, just let us use a simple logic. God is the Most Rich, and he already gave "mandate" on the man to manage the assets owned by him, the world . This is a "belief" that do not have both of them. Imagine, we are trusted by the button hole with the property that is not measured, and the authority that is not limited, this is a very intangible a tremendous asset.

However, "trust level" was given him, always proportionate to the readiness of our forwards. That is, if you want a belief in a higher and better quality, upgrade the quality of self. Feasible or not to accept responsibility for a more determined by your own. Dig more self-potential, and when you are ready, the Beneficent will bring opportunity

At this point, we can pull the conclusion that indeed a success not only rights but it is a duty. There is not one who "are presented" by him in this world to just "stay alive" and "waiting end arrived." Each person was created to fulfill their respective duties. However, all self procces. That is, through a series of learning, the more potential you dig themselves, the higher the quality of the self, the "quality" is also a task that required you cash

The process of learning that there is no stopping this in common as we call LIFE. yes, will be alive a fuller you. troubled-happy, Rezeki-natural, easy-difficult, is a small example of forging forging-will always we face.

If we always be suspected in the Creator, then the process of forging these sure be will add "layers" we POLICY. That is, if we are successful through the phase-phase forging, and without realizing we indeed have to upgrade the quality of ourselves. We are also ready to shoulder that responsibility more and more of course, ready to reach the peak of success the next.

For example, if you're an average manager who aspire to become a director, then begin to think like a director, as director of the teeth, taking a decision with the quality of directors, lead director of the characters, the complexity of the director level and able to solve the problem " only "faced by a director.

If you dream to achieve success is higher again, which should run so, they will always audacious face and complete learning experience that you are either "happy" or "difficult". Those who dream success without limit is that they always audacious face any form of "learning" is awarded by him.
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