Born congenital or can be learned?
The following questions is quite interesting and a lot of experts thought. Whether someone is born as a villain?. Surely there are people born as a leader?. If you are born shy, it means you are not to be shy forever? Questions such as these are also developing in many areas of psychology, such as for example, whether intelegent existing since birth - as the default nature of the child - or can be developed through nurture the right. Cross of this debate, known as "the default - the development of (nature - Nurture)." All the answers given have not fully answer the question is. However, in relation to be positive we summon the assumption that the four themes for discussion.
- Positive attitude is not the default of birth;
- Positive attitudes can be learned;
- Positive Attitude is a choice;
- We can practice a positive attitude, can not - is your choice.
Fourth assumption is important for our discussion, because if you do not like that positive attitude is something that can you select, the smaller the possibility for you to change.
If you are still in doubt, try the following exercise:
1.
think a number of aspects of your life. Give answers, whether the attitude you now because you are born so, or only eye
is results or lessons
2. The influence that you receive
3. Or is a mix between the default attitude of birth and life of your development?
* The way you make the decision [1] [2] [3]
* Attitude of your money [1] [2] [3]
* Your attitude towards race [1] [2] [3]
* Books you about environmental problems [1] [2] [3]
* Pain humor you [1] [2] [3]
* Your music taste [1] [2] [3]
* The spirit and your energy [1] [2] [3]
* Newspaper did you read [1] [2] [3]
Basically, the way you think, and taste your political stance is the result of the study and will continue to develop during life. While the sense of humor, spirit and your energy - which is a little mix between birth and the default option - is an exception.
Perhaps you think that all this is rather extreme. If you believe that a positive or negative attitude is carried since birth, and the accident or your own employees you have a negative attitude, it does not have anything that can be done to change it. Actually not so.
Indeed, genetic factors also play a role. Most people can sing, but very few who are able toss
caliber songs Ruth Sahanaya. Many people can be drawing, but only a few people capable of drawing as well as Basuki Abdullah. All people can run, but only very few who can become world-class runner.
Once any way, through practical exercises and we will be able to sing better, drawing a better or run faster. So be positive with, you will be able to become better in the things that you do it. As a first step, you will need to be positive on the possibility of the change.
Positive attitude in the management of a nature that can improve any or all forms of management skill. However, a positive attitude can not stand on its own. Therefore, the positive attitude regarding reciprocal back with various forms of management skill.
Let's close this session with the manager as you suppose personnel who are employees of the walkout. How do you finesse in handling the problems associated with these characteristics be positive that we had in the session 2? Give a score on each characteristic from the
negative to positive:
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
1. Is not very neutral ------------ Neutral
2. Not able to take the Ability ----
3. Creative thinking is not ------- Creative Thinking
4. --------------- Optimistic pessimist
5. Does not communicate effectively-Effective Communicating
Of course we can not give an exact figure to measure the level of your positive attitude. However, in a certain extent you have to rate how positive your attitude at this time, and if there are things that must be changed so that you can increase your positive attitude. So you may think, there are indications that a discrete positive and the other took the legal-legal only. It is important here, the higher the value you provide training on the above or other characteristics that you add, the more likely you can be positive in your management.
- Positive attitude is not the default of birth;
- Positive attitudes can be learned;
- Positive Attitude is a choice;
- We can practice a positive attitude, can not - is your choice.
Fourth assumption is important for our discussion, because if you do not like that positive attitude is something that can you select, the smaller the possibility for you to change.
If you are still in doubt, try the following exercise:
1.
think a number of aspects of your life. Give answers, whether the attitude you now because you are born so, or only eye
is results or lessons
2. The influence that you receive
3. Or is a mix between the default attitude of birth and life of your development?
* The way you make the decision [1] [2] [3]
* Attitude of your money [1] [2] [3]
* Your attitude towards race [1] [2] [3]
* Books you about environmental problems [1] [2] [3]
* Pain humor you [1] [2] [3]
* Your music taste [1] [2] [3]
* The spirit and your energy [1] [2] [3]
* Newspaper did you read [1] [2] [3]
Basically, the way you think, and taste your political stance is the result of the study and will continue to develop during life. While the sense of humor, spirit and your energy - which is a little mix between birth and the default option - is an exception.
Perhaps you think that all this is rather extreme. If you believe that a positive or negative attitude is carried since birth, and the accident or your own employees you have a negative attitude, it does not have anything that can be done to change it. Actually not so.
Indeed, genetic factors also play a role. Most people can sing, but very few who are able toss
caliber songs Ruth Sahanaya. Many people can be drawing, but only a few people capable of drawing as well as Basuki Abdullah. All people can run, but only very few who can become world-class runner.
Once any way, through practical exercises and we will be able to sing better, drawing a better or run faster. So be positive with, you will be able to become better in the things that you do it. As a first step, you will need to be positive on the possibility of the change.
Positive attitude in the management of a nature that can improve any or all forms of management skill. However, a positive attitude can not stand on its own. Therefore, the positive attitude regarding reciprocal back with various forms of management skill.
Let's close this session with the manager as you suppose personnel who are employees of the walkout. How do you finesse in handling the problems associated with these characteristics be positive that we had in the session 2? Give a score on each characteristic from the
negative to positive:
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
1. Is not very neutral ------------ Neutral
2. Not able to take the Ability ----
3. Creative thinking is not ------- Creative Thinking
4. --------------- Optimistic pessimist
5. Does not communicate effectively-Effective Communicating
Of course we can not give an exact figure to measure the level of your positive attitude. However, in a certain extent you have to rate how positive your attitude at this time, and if there are things that must be changed so that you can increase your positive attitude. So you may think, there are indications that a discrete positive and the other took the legal-legal only. It is important here, the higher the value you provide training on the above or other characteristics that you add, the more likely you can be positive in your management.
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